22 September 2016

Obsession of girls with Plush Toys

We girls love plush toys (like teddy bears, Disney, animals) no matter how old are we. If I am not wrong, every girl has a plush toy in her room and let me guess you hug him, kiss him everyday. I really don't know why, but girls go crazy when it comes to plush toys. Girls feel like there are not enough toys in their room even if their room is full with all type and kind of plush toys specially "bears". We love our toys for many reasons and today I am going to share some of them so that people don't call me crazy for being crazy for toys.

1. Knows all your secret
That little guy really does know everything there is to know about you. You can trust him with anything and he will never, ever judge.


2. No need to be scared while sleeping
Ya, you feel like there are monsters and goblins under your bed or some ghost who is going to kill you or take you. But don't be scared because you had got your strong and brave bear with you.


3. Hugs are awesome
Every time you hug your toy, it feels just perfect. Not every body want to hug other people but they don't reject when it comes to hug the toy or teddy.


4. He never snores
I personally dislike the sound when someone snores. This little guy never keeps you up at night with weird noises, and won't yell at you if make any of your own. 



5.You will never be alone
You will always get this little guy right by your side when you are alone and upset. He will never leave you alone and let you be bored. You can tell and share anything to him and take him wherever you want. He will always be with you no matter what happens.


6. Just too cute
Who don't want cute things. I love to have all the cute things in my room with me. If you see a cute baby with cute, red chicks then I guess you definitely want to pull those chicks with your hands. And every time you see a plush toy you want it at any cost.


7. Cuddling is the best
Cuddling to that little thing can be the best feeling at any time.



8.Friend for a selfie
Feeling bore... let's take a selfie with you. This is what we do all the time. We just want to embrace it and take lots of selfies together.


9. He will never hog the bed
Ever shared a bed with someone who'd splay their arms and legs out so much that you only had a corner of the bed to yourself? Well, it wasn't your toy! He loves giving you all the space you need.


10. Who wouldn't want to wake up to this face
Who needs reason with a face like that?  Just look at him! He loves him! Go snuggle him now. 


20 September 2016

Perks of not wearing makeups

Doing make-up is an art, not everybody can perfect it. But just because I’m a girl you think I’m going to wear a make-up every single day of my life? Well then you are wrong. Some People say it is brave not to wear makeups. You don’t have to be brave to not to wear a make-up, you just have to be comfortable with your own skin. And it also means that I’m confident of what I am even though you judge me by my face, I don’t give a DAMN about what you think. Even though you judge me just know that I can cover my acne and spots on my face just by applying a cream but what you gonna do about your ugly, judgmental brain huh?


I know it looks really nice in mirror when you see your eyeliner shaped your eyes like cat’s. Like I said earlier, make-up is a form of an art but it is a hectic job to keep it through the day. So here is a list of a thinks you can enjoy when you are not wearing a makeup.

1.Rub your eyes
          Sometimes when you stare at the computer or mobile screen or too long it makes your eye tired and you naturally go to rub your eyes what happens next is your whole area around your eye is covered with your eyeliner. But when you don’t wear a make-up you can rub your eyes anytime. (but please don’t rub your eye often it’s not good for your eyes.)


18 September 2016

Questions To The Nepali Movie Gaatho Makers

Me and my friends loved the trailer of the movie Gaatho and we were expecting it to be really good. I thought the movie would be a story would be about a genius artist who can't open upto the people. And I had hoped the movie would be somewhat of a lovestory between a beautiful girl and the artist with a touch of psychological stuffs. So when we went to watch the movie, we weren't impressed. I don't think it was only us who had great hopes for the movie. 
And having high hopes just means higher the disappointment. If you have watched the movie, you know what I am talking about. 
Source: Highlights Nepal
Here were few things I didn't get about the movie. So here they are
  1. Samrat had bipolar disorder. I just thought he was a guy faking to be sweet to get his revenge.
  2. The relationship between Bishnu and Simran wasn't specified. It just seemed like a friendzoned guy hitting on that friend.
  3. And the FUNNIEST one, Samrat's mom had

12 September 2016

Struggles of Tall Nepali Girls

I’m 5’6’’ and I am pretty tall-ish girl among average girls. Even though i'm tall girl, I am the shortest one among my siblings.Here is a list of struggles that I’ve experienced in my life for being above average height.


1.Need a ladder? Nah! Just call the tallest one.

It is applied everywhere when something is up high or your friend can’t reach they will immediately call you for the assistance. When I was in school, and teachers used to forgot to rub off the board, my class monitor used to call me so I can clear the writings in the top of the board.

2.One-piece dress as long tee


When you see a cute dress in a shop and you wanna try that dress on. So when you try that dress, you'll just be disappointed that it won’t fit you as it should be. Still some dress so cute, you will buy it anyway just to put it in the cupboard and never to look, ever again.

3. Sleeves

 Thank God up on the heaven if you find a tee that fits you cuz let’s face it the “free-sized” tee looks like it is meant for ten years old girl’s height and when we try it on it will be like a crop t-shirt for us. Not only that if I want a full sleeve then I’ll get quarter sleeve. It’s pretty depressing to shop what you want vs what fits you.

4.Everybody suggest you a career

Nobody will ask if you want to be a volleyball or a basketball player but, everybody will suggest you those careers if you are pretty tall. Some might suggest you to be a model, but don’t listen to them because they don’t know what you want like you do, you be what you wanna be.

5.Heels


When you are going for shoe shopping with your friends or mom and ask for a heels, they will definitely look twice at you asking ‘are you sure?’ When you want to rock a very sexy shoes you wanna be 100% confident, but you will be 10% sure because they will keep asking ‘are you sure?’ for like 20 times.

6.Doors

Old houses in Nepal has very small doors and if you don’t be careful you might smash your head as much as door there is in the house. Once I smashed my head in Hanuman Dhoka Museum, It hurts so freaking much.   

7.You stand out


Remember the time when school used to take a group photo of the class at the end of the year, and every year there is the same kid in the back corner yeah, that was me…


8.Nicknames

Forget you real name when you are with your friends now its ‘Lambu’, ‘lamkhutte’, ‘khamba’ and many other things. It will totally be weird if you hear your name from your friends.

9.Tempo and Microbus

When you are in a rush and need to get somewhere ASAP in rush hours the public transportations are crowded but you get in tempo or microbus anyway and then you don’t have a seat to sit down so now you have to stand and you don’t even fit inside the vehicle. The feeling you get while you are in that situation is like: this is it, “this is how it's gonna end”.


10.Your back hurts


If you don’t sit or walk properly, you back will hurt more than shorter people. And if you don’t improve your walking style, you might get a slightly bended back. You always have to be conscious about the position of you back.

11 September 2016

Struggles of Plus Size Girls

I don't exactly like the word fat or plus size, I'd rather prefer healthy and curvy girls. It's not that we like being a little over the average weight, it's that we love food more than being the tiny skinny girl. Personally, eating my favorite food is greater than fitting into that small dress. I LIVE TO EAT. If someone says you're fat, just tell them that you eat well.

Being that healthy one among your friends or family, you always have these struggles. So check them out and comment if we missed some.

1. No guts to shop online
You don't have confidence in buying stuff just on the basis of how it looks. You are sure that even it says it's for healthy girls, it's definitely not gonna look good on you. You might have such horrible experiences before.

2. Food is life
You live to eat. Everyone eats when they're hungry, but you eat even when you're bored, watching TV, doing assignments, basically whenever you like to. You know the different taste of different foods, it's just that people around you doesn't value the taste of food as much as you do.

3. Finding the perfect clothing is difficult
Finding that perfect dress is always a hassle.  You find a pant that fits your hips but is too big below the knees OR it fits your thighs and calves but you just can't tie that stupid button.

4. Buttoned shirts are a big NO
When you are curvy, obviously your bust is comparatively bigger than others so when you grab a shirt that fits your waist, it's too tight around the bust. That is why you just keep the buttons open and wear an inner instead.

5. Dresses roll up on their own
You wear that body fitting dress of yours and what you'll find yourself doing after walking a short distance is pulling your dress because your dress always move upwards. They begin to gather around your waist. Yes, that happens to every one of us but that doesn't stop us from wearing them.
Gotta a pull that dress down

6. Don't eat
Everyone says not to eat much whenever you want to grab a bite. If it's your friends or family you must have definitely heard "Stop eating so much, you'll explode" or "You're a pig" or "You're gonna eat AGAIN".

10 September 2016

Struggles Of Nepali Girl

Here we are, the Nepali girls. Being a Nepali we certainly have restrictions on many things and on top of that if we are girls then definitely we are restricted and bounded. It's proud to be called as Nepali but at the same time having a tag of "Nepali Girl" I have to deal with lot of stuffs. Stuffs like

1. Marriage after 20


It's like a tradition that girls should get married after the age of 20 in our society. If we are just 3,4 years over 20 then we hear our relatives, neighbors and whole family talking about your marriage not about you.









2. Male dominant society


"The first child of family must be son". We hear this dialogue all the time. How it feels when you hear shit it is a daughter. Nobody thinks that the son whom they love most are also given birth by the women.


3. Single mom is a nightmare

If you are a single mother left by your husband then you should always be ready to face your backbiters. Even if the mistake is not yours, you are the one who is targeted to criticize. No one ever praises you for your deeds and be happy for you and your child.




4. Sex before marriage is taboo

Attraction, dating, kissing, hugging all are like "OK" but when it comes to sex then people around us react like we had done some crime. If a boy had a sex then everybody ignores saying it's in their nature. And when same happens with girls they are rebuked. Why are all wrong for us(girls) only?


5. Criticize on clothing

I think only Nepali girls have to rethink what she should wear if she is going out. If the length of your skirt is an inch above your knee then people start staring at you like you are wearing their dress. If  a small part your belly is seen then they start doing tittle-tattle about you and you hear rumors about you as shameless girl.








6. Period = untouchable


I ask you all, is period a disease? I am confused because people around me acts like I have got some communicable disease when my period starts. Girls are not allowed to go to kitchen, and specially in (Chettri and Brahman family) girls can't touch men with 'janai'. I mean what the bullshit is that.




7. Household work is a must

I think household comes along with Nepali girls. It's like a rule that every girl must cook, wash clothes and dishes, clean the floors. We are ordered as if it is any compulsion and if we try to deny then we hear typical dialogue "being a daughter you won't do it?".






8. No freedom at all

If we are out of home at the evening, we got number of calls and texts saying "come home soon". And the interesting part is that time is only 6 or 7 pm. If we want to do anything, go anywhere, wear anything, be with anyone we do not have freedom. Why just everyone let us go and be free.





Are these all things for us just because we are Nepali girls. If you think yes then stop right there and just rethink.

08 September 2016

Every Girl Can Relate To

Lets be clear, we all know that we, girls are physically weaker compared to the boys. Not only that, we are also quite emotional(I do not mean every but I definitely am). Being naturally quite different than the boys, there are some stuffs that only we girls can relate to or understand.
So these are some stuffs that most of us can relate to.

1. Messy buns take more time
So when we decide to rock that messy bun, we end up spending more than 15 min just to get that perfect messy bun even when it's meant to
be naturally messy. A simple bun would have taken just 2 min but nope we want that messy bun because we don't want to show we spend much time on our hair.   

2. We end up wearing the same jeans when we go out
Yes, clothes are just not enough for girls. We buy all kinds of different dresses, tees, skirts and other stuffs but at the end, when it's time to go out, we always keep toggling between dresses to decide what to wear. And at the end we wear the same jeans we wear most of the time. That's comfortable.

3. We just can't ignore new shoes
So we are out shopping and there you find that cute looking shoes you just can't ignore. So what you have like 50 pairs of shoes at home, you want to grab those shoes asap. No need to feel ashamed we are all the same.

4. Accessories are never enough
Like clothes and shoes, accessories are a must. You always buy such stuffs every time you shop. But yes I know, we rarely put them on. Most of the time, we forget about them.

5. We have every sized purse
Obviously coz that big sized purse is just too big for parties, small sized one is too small to fit your tablet and that middle sized just doesn't feel right all the time. Yes ladies I can feel that.

6. We can see the difference between pink and light peach
Well we're definitely not colorblind so we can see the difference. And finding that right shade of lipstick is like a MUST. That pink lip color is just not that good as Peach colored lip color. I don't understand why boys don't get that seriously.

7. Ideal boys : tall guys with a bit of muscles
That's supposed to be most of the girls' ideal boyfriend(well at least mine). But then it doesn't matter when we find that guy who loves  you a lot and not necessarily that he is like what you had in your mind. We just want him to treat us with love and care. Treat me like a princess bae.  


 8. Boys wearing tight pants are a big NO
OK I just don't understand why boys like wearing tight pants. First, it doesn't look cool at all and second, we know it's not comfortable all the time and finally, it doesn't allow our blood to circulate properly. Boys, even girls have stopped wearing tight pants, they wear flared pants or boyfriend jeans these days. I just don't want my boyfriend to wear it.

9. No girl find their body good enough
Beauty doen't necessarily have to come in small package. YES, we do know that but who the hell gives shit to that, we just wish to get that small and perfect figure even when we look skinny to every person in the universe. Yes, we're kinda weird. But that chocolate parfait is something I cannot bat an eye on.

10. Shopping is never boring
Shopping, Shopping and shopping. Lets do this everyday girls. But wait, we haven't got enough money for that. If shopping were free, every girl would be around malls. Shopping is like LOVE for every girls.